What's An Older Man To Do?

Dear Brian,
What is an older person to do? Youth, body shape, etc. My chest has fallen. Some of my teeth are plastic. I wear glasses (contacts are not for me). I can flap the sheets as well as any man half my age. Once in a blue moon I think the person will come back - the one who told me I could think. One nite stands are for the birds. Where do I go? I live in Florida.
- popepius

Dear popepius,
Accept the fact that you are an older person and ignore society's obsession with the most fleeting thing in life: youth. Focus on more permanent and pertinent matters like the stability that your maturity should bring to a relationship. You might, of course, consider trying to meet a man your own age.

If that's a turn-off, well, you shouldn't be surprised if your own appeal is limited. However, if it's younger men you seek, be aware that there are young men who prefer and seek out older lovers. Look around the Internet. You're likely to find clubs somewhere in cyberspace where you can arrange to meet such men, but I would advise you to go where the young studs hang out in your area. That shouldn't be too hard to find in Florida.

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