Stick To Your Own Kind

Dear Brian,
I'm a gay male and too shy to face reality. I'm too afraid to think that there will be a straight guy who will love me. Is it possible?
- Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,
Why do you need a straight guy?  There are some gay men who are only interested in heterosexual men in the apparent belief that straight men are more masculine.  There are also gay men who are ashamed of their homosexuality and feel unmanly.  They get a sexual kick from humiliating themselves for the amusement of "real men" and think the best way to do that is to kneel before them and feed at their crotch without reciprocation.  Unless these descriptions apply to you, forget about a straight man.  Like the song from West Side Story says, "Stick to your own kind."  Get yourself a gay or bi guy.

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