Wrestling with Desire
Comment from Conewango98
I come from a Catholic background. I'm 32 and have dated men when I was younger to make my mother proud. When I went to college and then on my own I began to realize I really love women. Everything about women. I've been with women on a sexual relationship level. I love it. I use to look so girly growing up now my mom says I look like a man. HA HA HA.....I'm happy with who I am and who I've become. I work hard and I play hard. If you'd date around join the PFLAG or go to a unitarian or UFMCC church. these are organizations which will help you along. I'm in PA so if you want to talk about it go ahead. I've been there. Even though I've dated men I felt scared around them women I just want to grab and kiss them.
Comment from decomojo
Well, Tamara that's your life do what make you happy.Iam facing same thing I hadn't told my family but they may have ideal that I'am .I was in a bad relationship with a man. I separated from him in 1998.I been dealing with women since I left him.My divorcr came finalize on Feb.12th,2004.I have 2 boys I don't do anything in front of my boys. I wait to their father pick them up every other weekend.I go to my girlfriend house.I don't tell my lifestyle what I do is my business. I have to live for my self as well as you have to live for yourself what ever make you happy you do it.I don't think I lesbian I just can't trust a man I can be their friend nothing ELSE.I rather spend time with a woman instead of a man.You know when you get with a lady you will know what you really are.
Comment from aart98
I think, that bisexuality is more-or-less natural for each woman, although not each woman can realize that. Woman's nature from early steps of mankind development was always to share one man with other women, so, the tolerance and even romantic feelings to our sisters were encouraged and evolved during homo sapience formation. Pity, that with money&civilization development this evolution was stopped. Sisters, do not fight for man but love each other! Our love to each other can make the men and the world happy! Free from selfishness, greediness, jealousy, hatred! Monogamic marriage is absurd. Women loving each other within andropoligamic marriages will save the world.
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