Hit on by a co-worker
Comment from msvampstr
Are you out? Is she? Are you attracted to her? If so, do the lets do lunch thing...if not.. .tell her privately NOT publicly that she is not your type. You like her as a friend.. but she is not your idea of partner material. Jacquie... and yes I am a lesbian too.
Comment from mickey
I am also a lesbian and this happened many times with me the thing is I am the older one and the younger ones doing it to me welcome it as experience but make hundred percent sure it is for fun and not for relationship. She obviously is infatuated and in lust.
Comment from cutimaci_smilie
Maybe she likes you and isn't aware of HOW she likes you! - like if she is a touchy- feely person, ....ughh; yeah some people are like that w/ people they don't know well. Just a thought. Also, I might guess she is curious, maybe not gay , but bi- confused. Often , people like that would excuse it as "sisterly" contact -- not even in touch w/ their own motives. At any rate - do have a chat w/ her!! If she thinks just' cause you are gay & she is a woman - therefore its "fair game" for her curiosities; let her know otherwise! But chances are she might be confused - if you two communicate & set boundaries I'd say you two will certainly be cool. Hopefully! However, don't take abuse, though, either, girl!!
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