I want her back
Comment from colley
I've been on this sea saw kind of relationship for over 7 years...and it does take a toll....the lst time was bad enough...by the third I should have given up..we love one another, but she loves as much as she can love....and I need more. You can't be joined to the hip 24/7 but you need to be lst in each other's life...if that doesn't fly....then fly on to someone else. Save your self heart aches and wasted energy trying to make something that may never work...may is the big word...we have to be sure it will not change and that becomes addictive.
Comment from fallingpettals
Messing with your significant others emotions is a very poor way to deal with your own feelings of insecurity. If you feel that she hasn't been including you in her life, then there is probably a good reason. Maybe you on some level you have been doing the same. You need to use your voice (or write a letter or email if that is difficult for you), for that is the only way that anyone will ever know how you feel. Speak up next time (if she takes you back) and tell her what is bothering you ... unless of course you don't feel this relationship is marriage material. Nothing drives a person more crazy than the guessing game. I wish you luck.
Comment from: MAHOGANY_23
I think your advise should have been if you spent the time thinking about the plan to talk to her and let her know how you feel then you would not sound crazy...That was wasted time that you'll never get back.
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