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My Man Hates Sex
Comment from smileye
Variety could be spicy.
Comment from Joe
Maybe he doesn't love you.
Comment from Macbone
Dear My Guy George, Find you another "partner." Get over your emotional ties to this person. If he were actually and literally attracted to you - oral sex would be no problem for him to offer to you; however, upon reading everything written - your partner does not and is not "in love" with you. Simple as that. It's perhaps difficult to accept considering your emotional ties to him, but you'll be better off as life progresses to dump him and find the special someone who enjoys you as much as you enjoy him. The longer you maintain in this relationship the more distress, the more hurt feelings, the more resentment, the more bitterness, the more anger will eventually surface in you due to total frustration. Life is but for a moment; enjoy what you've got only if what you've got is literally what you want... Perhaps you yourself are "into" not being served and sell yourself short in a total relationship. Some of us do this either consciously or not, but we do it. Drunken love "being in love" is a crock as these words put it, but if so the "being in love" MUST be mutual in all accords. If not, you simply spin your wheels until all above mentioned emotions manifest themselves and usually vent via depression; anger, and often time hostility toward your partner. Eventually you will "vent" your feelings to him. Sooner or later this will happen. Look yourself in the mirror and ask is that what you want in 5 - in 10 years down the road?
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