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Date.com members speak out about dating/relationship issues
Question: Do you believe that opposites attract - or do you look for someone with similarities? |
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Chuck (20)
Opposites, because the more different and diverse interests you have, the more you have to build on. How much fun would it be if you were with someone who was just like you? |
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Sami (32)
I've actually found that people with low self esteem are attracted to people who are not like them because they respect them. |
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Brian (34)
I think it's obvious that you are going to have a better time with someone who likes to do the same kinds of things. People with similar personality traits are going to understand each other better. |
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Bruno (33)
Similarities are better because you share things that you both enjoy doing while keeping your independence. If you are total opposites then what's going to keep you attracted to the other person? |
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Garry (50)
Similarities, because if you don't have enough in common, then later on in the relationship, the lust wears off and you find you're stuck with someone who doesn't enjoy the things that you do. |
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Ed (47)
Ideally, a combination of both, because similarities give you common ground, and there is mystery and adventure involved with being attracted to an opposite, who would challenge your boundaries. |
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